I know I might piss some people off here, but honestly, I feel that this is an issue that needs to be discussed. My husband has told me that if I post this I shouldn’t be surprised if nobody comes to our next party. I think that R.S.V.P.ing is becoming so very uncommon these days…
The next time you receive an invitation to an event where the host requested you R.S.V.P., do the host a huge favor. R.S.V.P.
Years ago, etiquette recommended writing a hand-written note, but today the following ways are considered acceptable:
- text messaging
- instant messaging
- phone call
- voice mail
- message in a bottle
- smoke signals
It’s rude and inconsiderate if you don’t respond, considering someone took the time to invite YOU to an event and requested you let them know whether or not you are coming so that they can provide refreshments for YOU.
And, if you say you are going to come, get your ass over to their party, unless you were abducted by aliens or hit by a fire truck. If you say you aren’t going to come, don’t show up on the host’s doorstep.